I can honestly understand not trusting people in DF. Although I can't make that statement from the right end. I botched the phase skip on Brayflox a fair number of times, and now my FC outright refuses to do soldiery runs with me, and I've missed out on a few Levi EX/Coil farms. This kind of elitism is to be expected -- they pay good money to enjoy a game and having to run all the way to the boss because someone didn't want to listen isn't exactly 'enjoyable'. Unless I've done the fight 159 times (Brayflox, you colorful filcher, you) I feel as though hitting the LB without being strictly told to is a grave error in judgement. Maybe I'm not smart enough to think for myself -- but being a bad dps does have its consequences. Take some time, and follow peoples advice. It might make a better man/woman/hermaphrodite/water nymph/dullahan out of you.