I'm new to XIV too, started yesterday and have been enjoying wandering around Limsa Lominsa so far. I have played XI in the past and loved it, but I needed something a little bit newer and fresher. I'm loving it so far. There are always going to be rude players out there, but in my experience there are some great people out there too who will be willing to teach or help you. Don't let the rude ones worry you too much, just keep doing whatever you enjoy doing. ^-^