Unlil 50 it's quest, storymode or crafted gear. @ 45 you will get your 4 pieces "omgthisiseasy" af(remember ffxi af... ; . Then at 50 you get your 5th piece. That's good till you run da hell outta duties for Myth to get i 90 gear, using the i60/70 pieces that drop in those duties till you fill everything out. Other than that, like said above, practice, get settled in the class again. You will be there in no time.