Quote Originally Posted by Pantz View Post
It is wrong to use "they" in that context (even the singular they). And the English language doesn't have any word to replace he/she as a genderless term. And as someone said, using "it" is definitely worse.
But a player's actual gender is unspecified and unrelated to their character's gender? If their gender is unknown, "they" is correct.

Also, why are we to page 15 of this subject anyway? Gents playing cat ladies complain about being assumed to be actual ladies all the goddamn time and no one continues to insist on calling them "she".