What with the short fuses?

[MirielleLavandre]

The OP story is sad - I'll often jump into Ifrit HM for or Titan SM to help out people who I know wait forever for tanks (while I'm waiting for a FATE or just relaxing). I've had people yell at me for them dying in Ifrit, just like that drg, when it is plainly their fault. I'll point this out and say if people don't like it then I can always leave - Never gotten kicked. However, if the tank in question was shy or just not liking being demeaned, then causing him/her to leave just made that whole group re-queue...and how sucky is that?

Last night I was doing Titan SM for fun via DF and there was an obviously new WHM who died 2 times and we wiped. A drg in coil gear/relic voted to kick her after harassing her the whole fight -- I declined, but the other new person must've agreed b/c she got kicked for 'harassment' >.< Harassment is not being new and having to figure out a new fight...that was the first time I've left a fight I went into hoping to help. I tried to DF again in the hopes of getting the same WHM, but got a totally different group. Short fuses indeed :/