Something I will never understand about FFXIV

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I just finished a speed run of Brayflox HM in duty roulette and in this particular run I was kinda spazzing out mostly day dreaming and half paying attention to the game and because of this I actually caused the group to wipe on a large pull.

We released and one of the DPS was standing still so I imagined I was about to get a shit ton of abuse because of the wipe but instead he started shouting at the tank because apparently it was his fault?

I notice it a lot in this game that tanks get blamed for everything that goes wrong no matter the situation and I guess I see why people are not interested in playing as a tank now since you have to shoulder all the blame.

I did point out that it was my fault that we wiped and the DPS did apologise to the tank but still people shouldn't immediately attack the tank for everything, it's kind of a weird feeling to be honest since I have had more experience being blamed for everything as a healer in other mmo's I hope with time things will change and people will get less ragey about a single wipe.