This game is just way to hard...

[Doo]

Then you find out someone didn't learn the Stun skill from drk on rdm because you had to manually learn skills on there. Some being store bought, others being drops that could be bought on MB for pretty high prices depending on the spell and varying on server of course. Sometimes there were cases with preferred subjobs not being open or not high enough too. >.>; (Lets not even get into skill levels that were low.)

All that stuff you mentioned I find fun and enjoy doing though. Leveling subjobs to improve your versatility, having things to look forward to buying on auction house, certain skills needed or makes battles easier, etc. FFXIV right not is pretty bland and rigid. Just look at gear like say for whm. The secondary stats don't matter much at all and there's nothing unique about them. There's nothing to look forward to except gear that add more of the plain stats.

A Healer's LB is instant compared to a damage LB that takes time to execute. It's safer to pop a Healer LB especially now that res has an immunity timer.

Doesn't matter if they are instant or not when DD lbs are the best route to go due to all the DPS checks.