Fellow healers, lend me your counsel

[Merryl]

There are some primals that I simply refuse to roll healer with...like garuda.
I feel your pain. I get the same banter when I try to tank. Never mind that 90% of the time somebody is pulling ahead of me or running away with the mob *facepalm*

[TeaTimeBear]

There are some primals that I simply refuse to roll healer with...like garuda.
I feel your pain. I get the same banter when I try to tank. Never mind that 90% of the time somebody is pulling ahead of me or running away with the mob *facepalm*

It's reassuring knowing I'm not alone. Thank you.

[LexSunfire]

The majority of people don't look at what's going on around them but are very quick to ascertain who to throw their blame at when something goes wrong.

Amen to this. It's always someone else's fault and when people die it's quickly blamed on the healers. And sometimes other healers don't want to take the blame so they jump on board by singling out the other healer.

[Raeanya]

If I am bad. I will stop healing I would hate to be a liability. So please help me come to terms with this.

I still have much to learn, but I have a wonderful FC full of very helpful players and I am getting better every day. I had this conversation with some of them last night because I had just had a nightmare run of Bray HM. A friend told me that a bad player would never ask for help. As long as you are making an effort to get better, learn the mechanics, and learn to use your skills to their fullest potential you are not bad. That being said, it sounds like you just had a bad party this time.

[BinaryJack]

TeaTimeBear

Two simple tricks I learned the hard way;
1)Sholars prevent, Whitemages react.
2)Tank > Healer > DPS (This is from reddit - kudos to OP)

When a party wipes it is very rarely one person's fault.
Don't take it too seriously, we all cock up. This is just a game.