I promise you it's not about gear or iLvl. Skill > Gear/iLvL for example yesterday i ran T1 in DF on Pld now my Pld is only ilvl 80 atm. I'm not sure what iLvl the other Pld was but he was horrific. The only thing that was true was that he had iLvl 100 chest and about 600 more Hp then me and that he was terribad. Given that he said it was his first time on tank there and that he didn't know what spirits within was I tried to walk him through it very nicely. Either he wasn't rotating Cd's right or just didn't know the job I'm not sure but he had immense problems getting hate at split while i MT the Main Cad over to B spot. And on top of that he'd die half way through his snake after split, finally giving up after 4-5 wipes mad like it was the worlds fault. The whole party was more then willing to help him learn it even though it was DF group and we didn't mind the wipes. Lesson of the day iLvl is fine people just need more patience