Strangers everywhere u go

[Risvertasashi]

Nothing she could do but keep trying , anyone experience something similar?

I had a few false starts... FCs that I thought would be small and friendly but they only talked to those they knew well. One larger FC that had skilled people and were friendly to chat with... but they only seldom helped those outside their close friends and I couldn't get a coil static with...
I never got kicked from any, though. That's harsh...

There's a bittersweet ending... I did, eventually, find an FC that's both endgame capable and very nice, and does a lot of side activities together and helps each other out...
The bitter part is I discovered I don't really like FFXIV even with a solid group...

That said... I do have a little tough-love advice to give...
If you're still doing the tanky WHM thing, and want to run endgame content, that's a problem. There's a lot of mechanics--instakills, knockoffs, etc--where no amount of HP will save you... And ignoring or failing to deal with the mechanics can get others killed as well...
The incoming damage is also really high, so you do need that MND from WHM accessories to keep the party alive and keep the other healer from going OOM...
If you don't want to do endgame stuff--primals, coil, etc--you can do as you like, though...

PVP is definitely a place to try unconventional strategies, since everyone focuses on the healer there and it kind of shafts the traditional trinity...