Quote Originally Posted by Yumi_umi View Post
King mog ex which i had to teach everyone as i was the only one who farmed it in pf out of the group
I was in that run. You failed as a healer; your performance suggested that you were carried through your win(s). You didn't Esuna anything, barely single-target healed, and mostly spammed Medica 2. Which is NOT how you heal that fight.

And spending gil isn't a way to make friends, just as only crafting isn't a good way to keep them; eventually, people won't need the gil/crafts (except for food/pots for raiders) and your use dies. Similar thing for redecorating; a one or two use "feature" that has no bearing on your usefulness and desire for others to keep you around.