OP, i feel with u. The Problem is this game isnt made for longevity and what u want and Need i very hard to find in this game, just because it lacks durability, also because its fresh, it is no suprise lots of fc break up or end up with People abonding the game.

The fact u dont Need anyone in this game beside some endgame Content to reach ure Goals doesnt help either with the ability to make friends. I dont think this isnt the right game for u to be honest, try FFXI or elder scrolls online for example These are games with

a better community and a better gaming experience, not only because These games have a "life" the envoirenment is more realistic to me and more lively and touching but also the community is better in my opinion. this is bacause the games Need u to interact with People more and are less fast paced.