Name - "Namingway" item in the works / Workaround: paying for 2 character transfers (one off-world, then back to the original world). between the transfers create a character with the exact name you have and want to change from on the world you transferred off, when you bring them back it'll force you into a name change / Likely real money

Race/Gender/Appearance(non-hair) - Phials of Fantasia, get 1 for a Veteran Reward, more sources are in the works / Workaround? None I know of, sorry... / Likely real money

Appearance(hair) - Aesthetician, but you're probably not asking for this one / Gil

Chocobo Points - in the works, probably a GC item to reset them like the ones for class stats / Likely GC Seals