It will just take some time, but if you're clearing T6-8 on a weekly basis, surely you'll get yours done sooner or later. Of course, most groups will have DPS be top-priority, though. Personally, I don't really mind the idea of being decked out in i100 with great itemization and just getting upgrades slowly. It's a team effort and given how this game and healing in general works, the healers don't have so much priority. Just think about it from the point of view that you need to be more skilled and utilize your stuff properly, as opposed to brute-forcing through DPS-checks and making stuff go more smooth, I guess. I also like the fact SE is not just handing out i110 BiS just like that, over the counter. Makes for more rewarding times when you actually do get your upgrades.