a scythe for a DRK would be a terrible idea. I don't know why they came to the idea that Grim Reaper-like knight were somewhat cool, but DRK are traditionally 2H-blade wielders. It also fits much more their most common spell : blood blade.
For the samurai, why wouldn't they make a katana related class ? it would fit samurai, ninja and even blue mage (saber/katana wielder in FFTA). Though ninja will surely come with dual dagger class, and samurai would perfectly fit the lance.
Not necessarily if we consider that RDM is probably going to be a 2nd tier job. If they work as they were advertized by Yoshida, It would be possible to come from WHM or BLM (for the example of RDM). RDM using basically rapiers (which wouldn't really fit GLA either), there would just be a need of somehow relating the job as a spec.
To put it simple, RDM was used as an example where having WHM and BLM both at lv50 would allow to unlock RDM as a 2nd tier job. But having it 2nd tier means that you can come from either BLM or WHM to become RDM, which is troublesome if we consider the weapon restrictions.
However, having a single rapier, utterly useless for the classes (on par with iL50 white quality), and obtainable uniquely via the job NPC, which has WHM/BLM/RDM as job restriction, would somewhat work. When thinking of it, the animations of both jobs' spells could fit a rapier's use (at least the character would not pierce his own flank while swinging it). And if it's only one weapon, it would allow the change of crystal the time to create a set (no reason to remove the crystal afterwards anyway). Then every other rapier would be RDM-locked and it would be good.