I'm sorry but in regards to enmity itself the system is fine. Using the current WoW system as a good example is a joke. Go back to vanilla or BC and tank with DPS warriors as well and tell me its a bad system. We had to generate threat and manage cool downs and stance dance and more... its a skill set. Not everyone can do it. Doesn't mean dumb it down like current WoW and make people quit because a chimp can do it.

ARR is not even close to as hard as tanking back in the day. If anything enmity generation needs reduced because its too high.

As to the OP its the current generation of players who got carried by the WoW system and the like who don't understand enmity/threat management is part of a DPS job as well. Vanilla Fury Warrior who never had salvation. If I didn't manage my threat I was dead... nothing a tank could do if I didn't pay attention as DPS.