In XI and GW2, the LS/guilds I was in were kind of a huge network type thing. Lots of sister LS/guilds attached. That meant interacting with tons of different people all the time. More so than most. And the thing I heard all the time was "Do you ever talk? Why are you so shy?"
So in this game, I decided to advertise that I'm shy. But I still wanted to stick to lore as close as I could.
Now I mostly hear/see, "Wow. You really are shy."
It fit so well, my XI friends stopped calling me Aaralyn and default to Shy all the time now.