By the way for OP, regarding to 3102 - I have work been using this method to shorten error 3102 time. Not sure if it is actually a solution or just something i made.

- Disconnect
- Close FFXIV
- Start Client
- Enter Login / Pass
- Go to Data Center
- Select other Data Center not in your zone
- Go back to start screen
- Switch back to your normal data center
- Get in game

Never have to wait above 3 minutes