the trouble with raid, is people doing it (not all but a large part) have become jerks. they want other to do something they haven't done! you must understand, do perfectly the first time you get there.
worst, they don't want first timer at all, and claim that only them can complet the "hard" content, making them only the one that deserve to receive better gear and all.

all of this is because we didn't get new hard content outside raid and that an error. mmorpg is not a Massivly Multiplayer Online Raiding Pro Game... but Massively Multiplayer Online Role Playing Game. will be nice to remember it. raid is only a small portion of the game, it must'nt be the main focus of the game.