While on my whm in a main city yesterday I was asked if I could help out with a guild heist. I hadn't unlocked that one yet so I politely declined and told who asked if they ever needed anything I could help with I would be happy to lend a hand. The person asking thanked me for being so polite saying they wished the other healers they asked would have responded in such a way. I'm sure there's tonnes of people needing help, they're just too afraid to ask because of those jerks who decide even askin then for help is a waste of their time. Search comments and random shouts if you're feeling up to it will let people know you're willing to help. Makes me sad people have become afraid to ask for help :/