I have been playing this game since beta phase 3 everyday and have literally only received one tell very briefly asking me "What am I doing". That was the only tell I had ever received in what 9 months now...

I have never turned /anon on so everyone can see my stuff in the search. I even have had "Titan HM Please assist, do you need any help" in my coment box for about a month now, still no tell.

The only thing I have ever seen asked in the area chat would be "revive please at location" or Join fate/atma party. Other than that no one needs anything.

In my ffxi days, you never new who you would run into. Some days people would even need me and send me a tell ingame. EX. one time I changed to bard and 5 minutes later I got a random tell to join a blm burn party.

I really miss the days were I would get a random tell from someone asking for my assistance. Maybe if I put "Do you need any help" in my search comment box, someone might ask then...

Anyone else have this issue, where no one seems to need your help anymore?