Keep in mind that some players are so lacking in social skills that they only want they can get any grouping done is by forcing others to party with them through DF.

One thing I like to do is before i start a dungeon that I haven't done before, i type, "Hello, first time here", or something to that effect. I find people tend to help out more that way too.

If you're looking for a new server come check me out on Cactuar. Im still a fairly new 50, so we can bitched out together haha!