Not sure how to handle the new player hate.

[MoraClaret]

I think the people you matched with are particularly dickish. It's kind of a crap shoot with the DF. I've been matched with some really nice people but also with some really awful ones who look for reasons to get nasty.

People tend to be extra obnoxious if they think the consequences of their bad behavior won't follow them back to their server.

I would suggest trying to find a FC, even a casual one and grabbing some players to do runs with from your own server.

Also you could try queuing for other language parties if you're only doing E ones.

Try not to get too discouraged, good luck.

(Also, there's a serious lag issue right now, might have been going on while you were running the dungeons leading to people not knowing what's going on and just blaming the low geared guy.)