On the Flipside......Since leveling my SMN, I'm begining to notice alot of Tanks can be douches too. Just today in DF AK, I partied with a WAR who wanted to do a speed run. He pulled way to much causing the party to wipe and called the healer trash and said our Blm DPS was horrible. After the wipe, he pulled Big again, said Im done with you noobs and left DF mid fight, causing us to wipe again. Now that I think about it, should of took his name and reported him. Some Tanks abuse their power and let that go to their head.
@OP i90WAR/i80 PLD here so I know your pain, we all have been thru it. My advice to you dont let people deter you if you like the class. Don't get defensive if someone give you advice on how to tank better, and ignore the A holes. On harder content research the encounters, live and learn. Remember, without you their not going to get anything done.
^ At the end of the day Its just words. Dont let them slow you down.