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    Xusecer_Valtoren's Avatar
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    Xusecer Val'toren
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    Famfrit
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    Thaumaturge Lv 50

    Post Wanting an opinion about how to proceed and or handle this.

    Can a Mod please Lock and or Delete this Thread. Many thanks if you do.
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    Last edited by Xusecer_Valtoren; 03-28-2014 at 07:47 PM.

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    Just let it be, otherwise it's Drama Central.
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    Teppie's Avatar
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    Queen Tepe
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    Hyperion
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    Conjurer Lv 90
    They obviously don't value you as a member, if you make your complaints known it'll just make you look even worse in their eyes. If you feel this way you should leave on good terms, don't need to give a specific reason why, just "Hey thanks for all the fun, but I think I want to try other FC's, it's not you... it's me"

    That way if you run into them again later, it's on good terms, and you'll find a place that values you more down the line.
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    Anapingofness's Avatar
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    Bisera Cecilina
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    Adamantoise
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    Armorer Lv 76
    I'll also answer as an FC leader.
    FC's, however limiting they are, are there to help build community.
    Therefore, it's important that FC members feel welcome and valued.

    However, there is a good chance that your FC leader and FC mates may not even realize these things are bothering you.
    My FC on Goblin is a very casual FC.
    I'm not on 24hrs a day and to be honest, when I am on I may not see/catch everything.
    I would suggest talking to your FC leader and FC mates. Just take care not to sound abrasive. You don't want to create drama in a situation that could be a simple misunderstanding.

    Regardless of what certain other players say, if you feel frustrated or unwelcome you should probably look for a different FC- or make your own.
    It's your time and you should be happy with how you spend it.
    Best of luck! ^^
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    Last edited by Anapingofness; 03-27-2014 at 08:27 AM.

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    Chooseme's Avatar
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    Jane Seamore
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    Archer Lv 50
    who cares what you do? its a game and who cares what rank you are in the FC it doesnt really matter. Being promoted not being Promoted none of it matters. Just play the game as long as you get to play in the raids thats all that matters. You are just QQing over nothing.
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    warren-ragnarok's Avatar
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    Warren Slassi
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    Lamia
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    Pugilist Lv 60
    Quote Originally Posted by Chooseme View Post
    who cares what you do? its a game and who cares what rank you are in the FC it doesnt really matter. Being promoted not being Promoted none of it matters. Just play the game as long as you get to play in the raids thats all that matters. You are just QQing over nothing.
    well said statement. if a rank matters that much, i suggest you create your own fc, because your never going to be happy. if you're not happy, you should quit gaming in general, at least online
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    Edhe'li Merwyn
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    Leviathan
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    Weaver Lv 90
    OP, I hope this isn't the FC Xusecer Val'torn is in because we can see what it is via the character's Lodestone profile.
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    Teppie's Avatar
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    Queen Tepe
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    Hyperion
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    Conjurer Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by FJerome View Post
    OP, I hope this isn't the FC Xusecer Val'torn is in because we can see what it is via the character's Lodestone profile.
    As if anyone really cares enough to make something of it.
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    Denzel Taru
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    Arcanist Lv 51
    I'll answer as an FC Leader myself.. and this would be in terms of my FC..

    When people leave my FC i will often send them a tell asking them why they left and what I could do to improve my FC and I am often taken by surprise that the problem they had went un noticed by me.. that's because it's a big FC and I have coverage of just UK prime time.. so i don't see everything..

    the reason I am telling you this is for my next point.. tell your FC Leader your concerns.. unless he is purposely rejecting you and making it known that you personally are being rejected, its possible he hasnt noticed that this has happened.. make known your commitment to the FC and that you think you can help and what you could do as an officer.. being a casual FC i would love people to come to me like that, might be different for hardcore..

    final suggestion:

    when you get your answer delete your OP because we can use the Lodestone to check your FC (or request it to be deleted by admin as people can probably figure out context from replies)

    ps.

    seriously other repliers.. take a lesson from Thumper in Bambi.

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    Last edited by DenzelTaru; 03-27-2014 at 08:14 AM.


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    Shamo Lomenzo
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    Ultros
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    Conjurer Lv 80
    Have a little heart, people. Help someone with the problems they're having. Just because you're hiding behind the anonymity of the internet doesn't give you the right to be outright insulting to someone. "Grow a pair of balls" and offer a little helpful advice for a change.

    Personally, I would get whoever is in charge in a private conversation and tell them that you're feeling a little shafted. Explain why you feel the way you do but in a polite way. Try not to say things like "You are doing such and such thing", stick to "I feel this way because this and this happened".

    I don't see why you both can't be promoted. Let your FC leader know that if they do decide to promote you, they still have the option to demote you if they feel you are starting to abuse your power.

    Idk, that's how I'd handle it probably.
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