Quote Originally Posted by Foo01 View Post
I don't know what you got against THM/BLMs. What if they want to be an ice wizard. What is so wrong with that. What makes you so sure you are right to tell them how they should play? You find all sorts in the duty finder.

I play a healer on and off, and on the duty finder I get tanks that does NOT or can NOT hold aggro. I don't lash out at them. I don't tell them how to play, I run towards the tank. If that is not enough, I tell the party I need help because I am getting mobbed. Surely enough, those that can will help and flash more or do whatever they want to get hold of the mobs more. Those that haven't got a clue.. well we wipe. After enough wipes, we vote abandon. It is all part of the game, sometimes it is just bad luck, just like the RNG. But you know what, it is very rare, I ran into one such players in the last 6 weeks. You make seem like they are all over the place.

But know this. I ran into this way more often, people trying to force other people to speedrun, tanks, dps, or healers. The odds are like almost 100% on duty roulette main story. Grabbing way more mobs than anyone has any business doing. Forcing people to skip cutscenes. These I see nearly once a day. Sometimes I can keep up, and sometimes I can't. I die, they wipe etc. But they almost always just run off without a word, without any attempt at communication or negotiation.
And that's what you keep skipping over. It's a GROUP effort. If people refuse to adapt, even just a tiny bit, to make said group effort go smoother, they are wrong. I don't care which side you come from.

Next, all over the place? No. But more common than the type you seem to be complaining about. I've seen the ones who want to speed run, who want people to skip cutscenes. Like one time I was tanking Praetorium, the other tank was brand new. I would not pull til he was there, and some people got upset. They could have kicked me too, which was the funny part, but never did. And here's the thing, this other tank was asking me about how he could help more. He got my comm, just for that. This is what i'm talking about.