You're AWESOME! ^^
I quit the duty finder a short while after reaching lvl.50. Even though I only wanted to play the dungeon the way it was originally designed to be played, almost every other player seemed to want to speed run, skipping half the content and using cheap tactics. I read some opinions on the forums and heard a lot of people say it was selfish for one player to slow down the run, when 3/7 others want to speedrun it. I realized that fighting against this in the duty finder would be a waste of time and would only cause stress for myself and everyone else, so I make a linkshell just for players who like to explore, chat and support each other throughout dungeons. The linkshell is great but it can be hard to get a group together for any serious endgame stuff.
After reading your comments I'm wondering whether I'm doing a disservice to the game and community by rolling over and letting the big boys have the playground all to themselves. I imagine a lot of player only become hardcore or elite because they fall in line with whatever the crowd dictates, instead of having their own mind and staying true to what it was they enjoyed about the game in the first place. I think many, many more are just leaving the game after lvl.50 or starting new characters, or hesitant to play end game content because of the intimidating attitude of players out there. If so, the argument of 7/8 players want to speedrun, so 1 player slowing down 7 is selfish is total BS, and more like the elites are a group of spoiled brats who are taking the duty finder for themselves and trying to bully everyone who won't fall into line away.
The duty finder should be for everyone to use, regardless of skill level. It's not my idea of fun to inevitably keep getting group with 7 other players who are expecting a speedrun for fast tomes or whatever, but is it OK to just give up and let a certain type of player just have the duty finder all to themselves? Sure, I can struggle to organize my own pre-formed party for a first time / story focused / casual run, but why should I have to and not them?