Quote Originally Posted by Foo01 View Post
But seriously, the other player is using blizzard 3 because they think 3 is better than 1, do you not get that!? LOL. And you have the nerve to tell them to do other things.
So no Fire spells at all, right?

Quote Originally Posted by Foo01 View Post
Look I don't know how polite you were, and what led up to them lashing out, but it is rare that people not want to improve. They do NOT understand what they do not know. They are trying, and sometimes in the wrong way. They should be using blizzard 1 only, if they were NOT trying. But then again it would because they do NOT know what they do not know. Telling them to meet you halfway is just silly. The expectations that they would without you or me going out of our way to help them is simply a non-starter.

Once again, you pull down a branch for a 9 year-old to try to pluck the apple. Why can't they reach up and get it.... Well they need 4 more years of growth for starters. Or rather asking them to meet you half-way is a non-starter. And it is NOT because of the lack of trying.
Great way to ignore what i've said and using very bad analogies yet again. Don't use an analogy with something physically impossible to compare to something that's not physically impossible. If I give a BLM some advice, to use Fire in my previous example, and they lash out and refuse, they are in the wrong, if only for the lashing out. This is what I mean. There ARE a decent amount of people who treat games like this as 100% relaxation, which is fine by themselves or with those if a similar mindset. But that doesn't fly in a group, neither would my normal standards either, which is why I watch how the group does and pace myself that way. I don't overpull in a DF Brayflox hard for example, unless the healer asks or feels they are up to it. But does that mean each group should take much longer than normal because that BLM is just using Blizzard III and no Fire spells at all? Am I REALLY wrong for asking them to use Fire and alternate in an attempt to help the whole party?