Oh Duty Finder! The ultimate love hate realtionship I have with FFXIV. It's good because you can save alot of time in completing content (especially if you're a tank or healer) yet run the risk of losing your sanity to derp players.

Honeslty I've come to the conclusion that aksing for structure in DF is an act of futility. Just don't expect things will go you're way, but hope they'll get done nontheless. That's my motto in DF

The best thing I ever did back in FFXI and now in FFXIV was make like minded friends. It's an investment for sure surfing through LS and FC's, but damn does it pay off when you find a good one!