If you and your friend are being constantly kicked, did you take a look at yourselves as to why?

Are you role playing in parties with strangers? Do you use a lot of party macros with s.e.s? Are you terrible at the role that you're supposed to be playing? Are you kawaii-desuing all over the place? Are you whining? Are you using a lot of profanity? Are you being racist in a non funny manner?

In any case, why are you and your friend putting your egos/identity with your characters? If you were kicked, fine, brush it off and move on. They're not rejecting you on a personal level, they don't wish cancer upon you and your family and hope all the bad things in life happen to you and only you; just you didn't seem to suit their needs at this particular time. And it's not just one person, it's a minimum of three other people to kick you, more of course for CT.

You could always queue for parties/events together so even if a kick vote arises, you can deny it for each other.