I just don't understand it, let me explain -
In endgame, people are just to bad at this game, it makes it unplayable. My work schedule requires me to have to play during server dead time, There isn't much on the way of the party finder at these times. My Free Company, which i really like, really cool people, are usually online, but likely only 1-2 people who'd come along for (x) raid. So that leaves me joining the duty finder with them. This is when the game falls apart.
For fights ive never done before (which are getting fewer and fewer) I always watch a strat vid first until im comfortable with how the mechanics work. After fighting (x) boss once, i know the fight like the back of my hand, and if im unsure about something, i do the most crazy thing anyone has ever done - ask a question. Shocking i know.