This is just the honest truth. Endgame is not for Everyone that being said You have you forerunners who set the standards and those who follow behind. Once something has been done a certain way and proven to work people expect perfection 100% all the time. The only thing you can do is find people who are patience enough to do endgame with new players and be honest with you if you bad at it and try to find w/e your good at.