Too many times i see people assume ilvl = skill. I join extreme parties in party finder requiring i80 and it's a bunch of wipes. I do stuff as dps and outdps people who outgear me. I've been sticking with people that I've seen showcase their skill lately, but unfortunately we aren't all on at the same time every time lol. Just gotta take the good with the bad so you can find those gems (aka skilled people).