I know how it is. I had the exact same problem. I started off as a gladiator and made paladin and then people started getting more rude. So I started to level up a dps class but trying to level up all over again was kind of frustrating due to lack of quests. Doing levemates got tiring and while there is fates, sometimes it can be hard finding a fates group. So i basically just quit the game all together. I know i can do dungeons but i dont want to do just dungeons all the time to level up. The best option i see is making another character and just start over. The one thing that irritates me though is you cant mail stuff between your characters, so if you have a character leveled up in crafting and start a new character, you cant just mail stuff to it. I'm sure this game will be around for awhile so once it evolves more i'll consider coming back.