According to Lodestone:
1. Your relic is not +1.
2. You only have 1 piece of i90.
3. You probably haven't beaten Extreme Primals or you'd have the Hellish Claw. That's unlimited. Go do it then come back and whine.
4. There's no proof that you have beaten turn 5 so Coil is still an on-going thing for you.
5. I don't know about you but monk isn't even my main and I have at least 3 builds that I'm still farming for. That alone already makes me vastly different from the guy standing next to me. It's not a matter of build. It's a matter of skills.
6. I don't play this game to play dress-up. A little dye for the items would be nice but not really needed. And if you had beaten turn 5, maybe you would've looked different with the Allagan Cuirass of Striking.
There, 6 reasons why you're not even finished with monk. Also, HQ is the term for higher than normal stats crafted items. The chest you have is called Mythology gear or AF+1.