I find that the world is what we make it. The forums also.

Even when I find a negative thread, I find that there are always ways to approach it and see the positive in it. Even the threads where people are upset about something in a game, it's pretty easy to see that they're upset because they were and still are fond enough of the game to feel let down in the first place and then to want to improve it. Even the people that outright hate the game and want to leave you kinda have to be happy for in a way. If they really hate it, it's good that they're leaving. They're not having fun and I wouldn't wish that on anyone in this context. This will be much better for them and they'll be happier for it and those that love it will be able to continue on quite happily without all of the negative rolling in.

I know that's some serious mental gymnastics there, but I find it makes me a lot less stressed and unhappy about the forums and life in general to look at it this way.