Hello, I'm a fairly new player who started at launch, with no 1.0 experience whatsoever. My first and all-time favorite class was THM, and I was excited to become a Black Mage. However, I also like to enjoy every aspect of the game. This is what brought me to level all the other classes pretty much at the same time. I know, not smart as my Armoury EXP bonus will be minor, but meh, I don't mind not getting to 50 faster.
At the present time, my Black Mage is lv47, with the other classes ranging from level 31 to 39. I've been told I'm a wonderful tank, a great healer, had praises of all kinds as DPS classes too, which really flattered me.
However, my great love, BLM... That one, I never seem able to make people happy with.
Every time I enter a new DF group, I get told by someone to play my job differently from how I am. I comply, I like advice, and I want to improve. But even after doing what I'm told, the next group will tell me to do something entirely different.
"Sleep" "Don't Sleep" "Don't waste time on Thunder II" "Use Thunder II on every mob" "Ignore Firestarter, spam Fire II" etc. etc. etc.
The last drop was a person in my last duty roulette telling me that spamming Fire II on multiple enemies was better than trying to trigger firestarter with Fire, that 100 potency on 3 enemies = 300 potency and consequently was better than a firestarted Fire III for 220 potency, and that as a consequence "AoE is always better". She insisted that there was already a set, world-wide shared rotation among all black mages and that it included spamming Fire II, but all I've seen in these forums seem to support procing Firestarter.
Once again, I'm lost. I love Black Mage but I just know that no matter how hard I try, my next group will want something different. People tell me to stop trying to make everyone happy and just do what I've been doing (sleep and work on the firestarter rotation when the tank is a paladin, and favor AoEs when the tank is an Overpower-happy warrior), that my main class should be a source of fun, not stress. I try, but admittedly, people's constant critics/teachings does bring a certain level of stress as well after so long. What should I do?