I'm on Zalera and looking around for new server too. Been on Behemoth this week and it seems much more lively so far. More populated and with nicer people. I was doing a FATE near Bentbranch last night, the one with the elemental, with just 2 of us. It was slow going and I thought we might not get it done in time. Suddenly some random higher levels came in and helped us finish. Random acts of kindness like that say a lot to me about a server.