Seriously...
"Don't use Regen, you'll cause threat!"
"Don't use Medica II, You'll cause threat!"
"Don't use Cure III, You'll cause threat!"
Seriously, I got my Thyrus over the weekend and the first few Titan attempts, the tank kept losing aggro to me because "OMG, too much Medica II...". Fine, I won't use that anymore. And then, during jumps, I was timing a Cure 3 while everyone was bunched up and the scholar asked me not to use that either because it causes too much threat.
What's the point in giving us healing abilities when groups ask us not to use them most of the time? I have never once seen someone tell a Scholar not to use half their abilities. Just the White Mage.
I'm not saying that curing should be threat/consequence free, but if people are actually demanding that I not use these spells at all, the cost has moved way beyond that. I can understand waiting until the tank has aggro, which I always do, but having Medica II pull that much threat into the battle makes the spell next to useless.
I just wish I could use my full skill set.... agree? Or am I just WMing wrong?