Some people are able to learn and adapt fairly quickly. I have no problem trying to give a hand to these people. There are a lot of players out there that are just bad and will never drink from the water trough no mater how far you dunk their heads into it.

As another person said, the amount of bad players in this game is staggering. That's to be expected though with the way the game was designed to hold your hand until later into end game.

There is also a difference to going into new content and asking for help, tips, advice, and effectively communicating rather then sneaking into groups silently and praying to get carried. I shouldn't have to play encyclopedia brown trying to figure out if you need help and then spending the next 30 minutes explaining the basics of grouping and being an effective team member. That is the big problem here and why people come to the forums upset.
You guys say don't be a douchebag well I say to you.......

Don't be a douchebag and expect to get carried. Be a damn adult, communicate and ask for help or even take it upon yourself and do some research.