Fact is, it is hard to learn encounters in this game, or any MMO. All PF finder parties last night on my server for T1-4 had some phrase like "dont suck, three strikes and you are out, no newcomers" and so on. Learning parties are few.

I understand the frustration, you have limited time to play, undergeared or cluless people waste your time. Been there, done that, when i farmed Garuda HM back in November with my first char, i used to count the CS viewers, three or more was a wipe, 100% predictive accuracy.

I personally do not care anymore as my hardcore raiding days are long gone, but some gear to distinguish the true raiders from the grunt grinders. This is a socialist game, in the end when it is all done, we are all the same. But not really....