Getting Past That Awkward Moment

[Lilyanna]

so how do I get past this feeling that I'm a crappy healer?

99% of the wipes that happen when I heal is either the tank was undergeared and pulled too much or the DPS standing in stuff. The 1% comes from accidental Regen before Flash/Overpower or I clicked off the tank and was healing myself and not them.

That first boss is a pain in the butt and should never have you consider your worth as a healer. It is a 50/50 win-lose for me everytime and there is nothing you can do about people that don't listen/do mechanics.

Just take a deep breath and continue on!