Exactly. And that can be changed. I personally set out to learn proper Bard rotations and how to maximize my DPS, and even still, others (both FC members and the occasional random Bard) gave me pointers as they saw I needed them. And I took it in and only got better. Now, if it had gone something like, "OMFG do u even know how to DPS properly?! What's wrong with everyone who plays this game?!!" I might not have been so receptive to what they had to teach me, if at all. I'm by far no MMO veteran, but the big problem I see is we're too quick to tear down rather than build up.

Also, I'm sorry for getting so very off-topic.