Watch all the bad "alt" tanks CT is full of.... that is why I don't tank and many other good tanks don't.

Constantly pulling crap off of us. Constantly turning baddies the wrong way. "I GOT IRON GIANT"... followed by fail tank chasing giant around... or fail tank holding it in the middle of the raid. "I GOT KB"... followed by fail tank standing in everything... no cooldowns. THen there is the tank just pulled KB time to medica II healers that place is loaded with. I could go on all day about the stupid we deal with in there.

Doesn't help that Tanks and healers have shorter queues so dps that suck at tank/healing join that queue and make everything worse for everyone.

For whatever reason SE decided to make FFXIV tanks very weak. Plds and War have very little control over if they live or not. No mater how good you are there is no making up for bad dps or bad healers.