Why no one tanks...

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(I don't speak or want to play with primarily japanese people, bad experiences.

This is really interesting to me, as I quit playing on American servers mostly because of lag, but also because of the sheer number of people with horrible attitudes. People quitting dungeons or primals after one wipe; screaming or swearing at those they thought were playing badly; the sheer entititlement and lack of patience.

Of course I met lovely players too, but they were the minority. Since being on my JP server, every single instance has been pleasant. People are patient and supportive! People aren't afraid to say it's their first time running something!

I actually got up the courage to try tanking recently.

Personally I didn't want to tank before because of the responsibility, and the reactions you get when you make a mistake. I play this game to relax and have fun, not to be abused!

I wish people would be more patient with new tanks/healers.