[Start of a little rant]
Hello.
I'm a tank. My job is to find mobs in a dungeon, get their attention on me, all at the same time, while some other people in the room are killing them, and then move on to the next group. Do you know how hard it can be to have someone face you and not look away, when the entire time someone else is poking them in the back? Ugh.
Anyway, the above is the whole job of a tank. There really is NOTHING else they are supposed to do. Some tanks that I have seen, have such a very refined way of doing this, that it looks like a very well practiced dance. They tank with finesse, vigor, attitude and exactness. And some tank even better, to the point of wondering how the hell they manage it, because other tanks point at them and "ooooh" and "ahhhh" and go wow!
Anyone who is a tank that wants to be a good tank, and wants to strive for perfection, will find out everything that he is doing right and do it better. And he or she will find out what they are doing wrong and either fix it or get rid of it. And in many cases, you will find that a lot of tanks have a tendency to tank the same way as a result of the above two points about "right" and "wrong".
BUT between the tank that knows his two basic and only real functions (keep all the mobs' attention on him all the time and to move on to the next set of mobs or boss) and the tank that does everything with finesse, elegance, speed, exactness and even with a bit of a chip on his shoulder, is a H-U-G-E, gigantic, fantastically large gaping monstrosity of a hole (that would probably be better described as a canyon bigger than The Grand Canyon.
AND THEN you have to add in that it is another person on the other end. Sheesh. Just to make things worse for you.
AND that awesome tanks can do things differently from each other and still be awesome.
So...are you finding out that a lot of tanks are running around to collect up mobs for you to kill and you don't like the way he or she is rounding them up for you?
Then I would suggest to you that either (a) ignore them, suffer through the dungeon or raid or whatever, doing your job the best you can without making things more difficult for the tank, (b) talking with them in party chat and make casual suggestions to how they may be able to do what they are doing but improve by "doing this and this" which "may make things easier" for the tank (which will also make it easier for you...) or (c) leave the dungeon or raid (preferably without making "stupid" comments or "noob" comments or anything like that). And the (c) option is not about the tank or other person not having thick skin, or not being able to take correction (see [b] instead), or whatever else, it's just plane rude to denigrate people with no purpose other than to make them feel like crap.
NOBODY does something the first time with perfection. Or the second. Or the third. Or sometimes the 5th, 6th, 7th, 8th, 9th, 10th, 11th, 12th or 13th time either. (And I know people will probably add "or ever....") Maybe tanking is not right for that person, or maybe they don't care. Or maybe they don't know.
And I will end my little rant and story with one comment and correction:
This is not the job of tank. Never will be. And 99% of every time I have ever tanked, has this ever been the right thing to do. Wait for aggro of a mob to go to a DPS or healer so that it will then get closer to the tank? It sounds like you need to take on a tank role, get it up to level 50, and do about 100 runs through the higher level dungeons (not CT, since there are 23 other people, but 4-man dungeons) in DF and see what tanking is all about. Oh, also try the above suggestion you mentioned about 10 times, and see how much your healers and DPS love you.
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