To expand on what I've already said (because it's late, I'm bored and have nothing better to do while the servers are down), I think the impatient mentality of a lot of players springs from the way the game is designed. I'm sure you're all sick of hearing comparisons to XI, but it's the best thing I have to go on at this point so bear with me here. Everything about this game is, for better or worse, much faster paced. Gear, quests and levels come and go much faster. I'm not going to begin arguing whether it's right or wrong for players to have more instant satisfaction because I could fill an entire thread with that, but... some people really need to break out of the "gotta do it fast, get my reward, go go go" mentality and just enjoy playing the game with other people. Is it really worth getting your tomes 15 minutes quicker if it ends up slighting another player? People need to take it slow. Stop and smell the Gashyl Greens, you know?