I find it hard someone with such a venomous attitude works with the disabled on purpose. Is that it then? The OP's problem's aren't severe enough for you to offer an ounce of compassion? Your only suggestion is to quit playing.
Let's step back a sec....

There is a huge difference between someone being able to function in daily life due to a handicap and someone simply being able to play a video game due to a condition.

I'm guessing that Merlinian is simply finding it distasteful, and offensive, to have the two people equally classified as handicapped. Which I can kind of understand, that's like being in a hospital room with a seriously ill not-going-to-make-it sick person...having a cold, sneezing a few times, wiping your dose and then turning to someone else in the room and saying (loud enough for the sick person to hear)...uggh, I feel like I'm dying.

To the OP, I am truly sorry you're having an issue enjoying the game. Do what you can to find a fix/ workaround and present your case to SE, maybe they can implement something that addresses these types of issues. However, I would not expect them to change anything if it contradicts their vision for this game.