Ugh!!! disconnections

[Ominous_Getsuga]

ok i actually found another way to keep my game from disconnecting... but its still the same as before only this time i opened up a random folder and made it as small as it could be then made it the active window on the screen and shrunk it so it wouldnt be in the way of my game window behind and i was able to play without any disconnections (but the only way to play like this is to use a game-pad because the mouse and keyboard will be active on the folder window and NOT the game window) but my main question is... "why does this happen?" HELP PLEASE :'(