Well, damn. This community just shows it's true colors more and more, day by day.
You say I'm a bad PLD. Perhaps... I'm legitimately trying to understand the mechanics here. For the record my Avg. iLvl right now is 80.
Let's use iLvl 80, and CT as baselines for these comparisons.
As a paladin, entering a boss battle:

1. Shield Toss to 'tag'
2. Provoke
3. Flash
4. Fast Blade > Savage Blade > Rage of Halone

First Skill used is Rampart, then cycle Convalescence, Bulwark, and Sentinel.
Aside from that I'm spamming my aggro combo. Correct me if I'm wrong, but there's not much more to it than that as far as a single mob battle goes.
What I'm talking about, specifically, is while going through this rotation (above) a WAR can come and within 5 seconds has out-aggro'd me. Even when there's clearly no need for it.

Telling me "i'm doing it wrong" is pretty retarded considering the cookie cutter nature of this game.